Should Parents Lock Their Bedroom Door
And if the child is giving their parent cause for suspicion to look around.
Should parents lock their bedroom door. Are bedroom door locks okay. This is a difficult question to answer. Many parents do not allow locked doors in their home because they immediately think that their child is participating in some sort of hazardous illegal or undesirable behavior simply because the door is locked. There are those who genuinely feel that their child will escape and cause harm to themselves if they didn t lock them in.
Gates and dutch doors are safer options and less alienating for the toddler. A child who always felt comfortable changing clothes in front of their parent may no longer want to disrobe with them in the room. This is a normal part of growing up and not a reason for concern. Motion alarms can also tell parents when kids make a break for it and they are easy to implement.
In the uk it s not illegal to lock your child a room but for reasons of safety for example fire and possibly not being able to hear your child if they re hurt and the door s completely shut many people agree it s not something they d do lightly if at all. Zussman advises in my opinion parents bedroom doors should always be closed not just for. Parents sometimes get very freaked out when their children start locking their bedroom doors but they really need to relax and not assume the worst says dr. It may also earn parents a visit from child protective services.
The question for both teens and their parents is should teenagers be able to lock their bedroom door in the first place. If there is a proper healthy relationship between the parents and the child there should be no need for locks on a door. Natasha mueller a psychologist. According to sex educator and therapist shirley zussman the answer s pretty simple.